Sunday, May 19, 2013

Video Games and ADHD


My 13 year old is an avid Black Ops gamer. He spends hour after hour playing, leveling up, getting to the next achievement. He has a goal - to get qualified to play in the $2,000 tournament this summer. 

Some parents might disagree with me, but I leave him be. As long as he takes care of his chores and responsibilities (including homework and keeping his room semi-organized), I leave him to it and don't nag about his time online - that much.

Have I researched the benefits of video gaming and ADHD? No, not in depth. I learned a long time ago that every child with ADHD is different, and putting them into categories or expecting them to behave and act like other ADHD children doesn't work with J. 

However, I have read several really good articles that agree with my take on the matter. This article from ADDitude Magazine discusses how electronic games could actually help children with ADD/ADHD increase their focus for tasks that they find boring.
"There are several new games and devices on the market that may train distracted children (or adults) to pay more attention. Some connect the user's brain to the home computer through high-tech sensors and allow the person to control the action on the screen, not with a fast finger or a keyboard, but with the player's brain waves. Call it joystick neurofeedback."
Another great article can be found here, indicating that some research suggest that certain video games may even treat ADHD in conjunction, or in place of, medication.

Each of our loveable little testosterone (and estrogen) carriers with ADHD are unique in their own way. What works for one, does not always work for another. What about your child? Is your child a video game-a-holic or a casual gamer? Have you seen a difference in their behavior, concentration, focus since playing? Leave a comment and let us know!


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Saturday, May 18, 2013

Twitter Craze


I've been a member of Twitter for quite a few years. I just never used it. I didn't have a phone that I could use to send tweets, and, from what I knew, that's what Twitter was for. You're out and about someplace, you're bored, you want to chat with a friend, you send tweets back and forth. If some of your other friends were online they could reply to your tweet and you could have your own little Twitter party happenin' in just minutes.

Pissed me off too. I WANTED TO TWEET damn it. I wanted to put together 140 characters or less of sheer brilliance and amaze all my friends with my wit and humor.

So Twitter kind of got pushed to the back of my brain and I didn't think much about it except to hop online once or twice a month on the PC and see if anyone sent me a direct message. My DMs were non-existent for the most part.

Until recently. I am beginning to understand Twitter better. I now have a phone that I can tweet from. I love being able to zip off a comment here and there when the urge hits.

And I've discovered hash tags. God help all of you.

Did you know that you can add a hash tag to your tweet and MAKE UP ANYTHING IN THE WORLD YOU WANT and people will search the weird ones to see what else shows up?

And I have lists. I am adding to them little by little, rockers, bloggers, favorites, funny people, celebs (ssh, don't tell them I'm stalking them), and more.

I'm bored. I've been a #couchpotato #doinglaundry #readingemail #readabook and adding a few new #bloggeropps and #giveaways. I'm out of cough syrup and quite frankly #bronchitis and #coughing #sucks. I think I'll go #instagram play some #bingo and see what everyone else is tweeting about today.

Come join me if you want @KimAtLiah. I don't bite. Much.
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Good Grillin' Giveaway Sign Up


Good Grillin’ Event

Organized by: Mom to Bed by 8
Prize: Brinkmann Dual Function II + $100 Home Depot Gift Card
Event dates: 5/27 - 6/17
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Cozi Gold Giveaway Event


COZI GOLD GIVEAWAY EVENT!
Sponsored by: Cozi
Prize: One Year Cozi Gold Subscription (3 winners)
Event Dates: July 1, 2013 to July 31, 2013
This event is free for bloggers to join.
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This Week's Winners Circle


Lori Mallaro is our winner of the Dry-Me Giveaway!
Lori has until 5/20 to contact us.


JohnZ, Gina Garnett, Katherine Hahn, Lisa Grillo & Renee H. are our winners of the Poems of Encouragement Giveaway!
Winners have until 5/21 to contact us.

Congratulations to all our winners this week!

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The Beauty Is In The Berry Giveaway

Sponsored by Sibu Beauty
Hosted by Life in a House of Testosterone

ABOUT SIBU BEAUTY:
Bruce McMullin founded Sibu in 2003 after a series of events led him to Calcutta, India, where he crossed paths with an ayurvedic (a form of holistic alternative medicine that is the traditional system of medicine of India) specialist in Chinese plants and herbs. This expert mentioned in passing the powerful holy fruit, the Sea Buckthorn berry. 

Mr. McMullin's journey led him to some of the most remote locations of the Himalayas to find this superior source of Sea Buckthorn, that is the very heart and foundation of all Sibu products.

READ THE REVIEW:
I am absolutely thrilled with how well the seed oil performed! You can read my Sea Buckthorn Seed Oil review and see for yourself!

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WIN IT:
One of you lucky readers is going to win a 10ml bottle of Sibu Beauty's Sea Buckthorn Seed Oil! Enter the giveaway form below, US & Canadian residents only, ages 18 and older. Winner can not have won a previous Sibu giveaway. Giveaway ends on 5/31.

Sibu Beauty Sea Buckthorn Seed Oil

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Friday, May 17, 2013

Sibu Beauty - Sea Buckthorn Seed Oil Review



Unless you have been living under a rock for the past several years, chances are quite good that you have heard about a marvelous little berry called the Himalayan Sea Buckthorn Berry. This amazing little fruit has been featured on FOX News, The Doctors, Dr. Oz and is fast becoming a favorite of the stars as well.

What Is So Special About The Sea Buckthorn Berry?
Known for centuries as the "beauty berry" in Europe and Asia, this tiny little berry packs over 190 bio-active compounds that restore, revitalize and protect your youthful beauty - inside AND out. 

This tiny little berry's oil is incredibly rich in antioxidants, and Vitamin C & E, and they also include the essential fatty acids of Omega 3 and Omega 6, in addition to the rare Omega 7. Omega 7 is an essential building block for healthy skin, hair and nails ... not to mention it helps to maintain a healthy weight and aids digestion! 

The sea buckthorn oil extract is 80 to 95% essential fatty acid, so it is extraordinarily rich and therefore only the smallest of drops will perform miracles!

Why Should I Care About Omegas and Fatty Acids?
Essential Fatty Acids (EFAs) are fatty acids that humans and other animals must ingest because the body requires them for good health but cannot synthesize them (produce them on its own). The term "essential fatty acid" refers to fatty acids required for biological processes but does not include the fats that only act as fuel.  ( from Wikipedia - Essential Fatty Acid )

Omega 7 fatty acids provide numerous benefits to your health, such as:
  • Providing key building blocks for skin, hair and nails
  • Combats wrinkles, dryness, loss of skin elasticity
  • Rejuvenates skin cell membranes
  • Repairs sun-damaged skin
  • Helps promote healthy weight management
  • Increased cardiovascular health
  • Has a soothing and smoothing effect on the all of the body's sensitive internal linings, aiding in gastro-intestinal health

Sibu Beauty
Sibu Beauty (www.sibubeauty.com) is a leading manufacturer of sea buckthorn berry products and made from only the choicest selection of Himalayan sea buckthorn berries that are harvested in the pre-dawn hours to protect them from the relentless UV rays and lock in the greatest nutritive value. Since they are harvested and processed the same day, the integrity of each precious berry is maintained.

The entire line of Sibu Beauty products are Paraben-Free and Cruelty-Free. No dairy, wheat, gluten, sodium, yeast or preservatives are used in their products. The sea buckthorn is sourced through fair trade agreements with local harvesters in Tibet.

Why I Wanted To Do A Review
I suffer from Stasis Dermatitis - a medical condition caused by poor blood flow in the legs (probably as a result of my sitting behind a desk 9 hours or more every day). I first noticed this condition 10 years ago when I was pregnant with my last son. It started out as just a small spot on my left leg, didn't hurt or itch or burn or anything at the time, so I didn't pay it much attention. I showed the spot to my OB/GYN physician during my next check-up, and she was of the opinion that it was just "pregnancy related" and would most likely disappear after my son was born. So I didn't think anything of it again, for quite some time.

This is what the "spot" appeared as 10 years ago:

That small spot 10 years ago now looks like this:
So, um, yeah. Looks like crap, doesn't it? Not only that, but there are multiple other spots beginning to appear on my legs as well (same thing) and I am literally beginning to freak out a bit because of it right about now. Did I mention the alligator skin and the itching and burning? Oh yes ... we go through periods where these marks will itch and burn so badly that I want to scratch the skin right off of my leg. Without fail, either right before or immediately following the itch/burn period, my skin appears dry and cracked and absolutely horrible looking.

The desert looks 100% better than my leg!
So now you see why I wanted to try this miracle berry seed oil on my stasis dermatitis? Quite frankly, I was not expecting anything major to happen. It took a period of ten years for my leg to get this bad, I was not expecting anything to happen overnight.

Boy, was I WRONG.

The Sea Buckthorn Seed Oil Review
I ripped open the package and cracked open the bottle the minute it arrived. Quite frankly, I did not like the scent. It's not super strong or offensive, its just - different - and not quite what I was expecting. When you think "berry" you are thinking a fruity kind of scent, something pleasant. That's what I was expecting. As I said though, that was the only thing that I wasn't all that crazy about (first impressions) but over the course of the past two weeks I've grown accustomed to the scent and it does not make my nose wrinkle any longer!  :-)

The oil is orange (orange berries = orange oil) and completely and totally luxurious. Applying the seed oil to my skin felt like I was putting liquid silk on my skin, and my skin ATE IT UP. Literally. Soaked that oil up like I was giving water to a man who had been in the desert for 40 years.

I decided to best gauge the condition of my leg and how well the stasis dermatitis responded to the seed oil, I would use it in the mornings when I first woke up. I applied two drops to the area on my left leg (more than enough to cover the entire area), one at the top and one at the bottom, and rubbed the oil in completely.

Within 24 hours - the dry, cracked skin was GONE. It is smooth, (still) shiny-looking, and shows just the slightest tiny bit of dryness in the very center. Within 48 hours, I noticed a change in the coloring. Bright, angry red looking before, it is now a dull discoloration. Still noticeable mind you, but it doesn't appear 20 minutes before I do any longer! This is how it looks after 17 days of treatment:

Since this particular area of stasis dermatitis is so large, as I said, I wasn't expecting a miracle to happen and have it disappear overnight. So in addition to using it on the large area, I also applied the sea buckthorn seed oil to a smaller circle right below my right knee, every morning, for the past 17 days.

That circle is GONE.

I give Sibu Beauty's Sea Buckthorn Seed Oil an overall rating of 5 STARS. It performed better than I expected, it lives up to all the hype behind it, it feels like pure silk on your skin, and it works miracles - plain and simple!

I could not be more pleased with this product, and I would highly recommend this to everyone I know, hands down, no questions asked!

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Joss and Main Introduces More Summer Collections Starting Today

Beach Day - Bikes, Umbrellas, Chairs & More (May 17 - May 20)
From bike rides by the seashore to picnics on white sand, this summer-ready collection offers every accessory for a day at the beach. Pedal along the boardwalk on a neon cruiser, keep fresh lemonade cool with insulated totes, and read in the shade beneath a bright umbrella.






Coastal Kitchen - Seaside-Inspired Accents & Entertaining (May 17 - May 20)
With curtains fluttering in the ocean breeze and scents of summer lobster on the stove, the Coastal Kitchen is the sunny center of homes from Montauk to Newport Beach. Transform your culinary décor with the seaside stylings of our marble-topped kitchen islands, cookware classics, entertaining essentials, and much more.




Country Estate - Homespun Accents with Rustic Charm (May 17 - May 20)
From roadside antique shops to bustling farmer’s markets, these eye-catching accents bring weathered charm and homespun appeal to your decor. Add visual intrigue to your walls with inspirational art and vibrant scrolling mirrors, or create a nostalgic vignette with ornamental frames and vintage-inspired mantel clocks.



Weekend in Maine - Breezy Furniture, Decor & More (May 17 - May 20)
Bring the breezy comfort of a Kennebunk cottage to your home with our charming Weekend in Maine collection. Weathered rocking chairs and floral rugs create a cozy porch-side respite, while warmly weathered consoles, plush arm chairs, rustic dining tables, and more inspire the inviting seaside style of a Wells Beach summershare.

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Thursday, May 16, 2013

Cardstore Helps You Celebrate Father's Day In Style!

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Happy Father's Day to all the dads out there!

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The Scream

Sharing an old post from Friday, July 29, 2005 with my readers. J. was 5 years old at the time and T. was 2 years old. We were on our way out of town for the day, taking a drive down to Willoughby Spit in Virginia to the pier for some ocean and sand and fishing.

I think any parent has felt the full wrath of "the scream" when attempting a road trip or a packed day of errand running. At one time in your parenting life or another - you will encounter "the scream" if you have more than one child.

Mine scream at each other weekly. We had a repeat of "the scream" last night over skateboard wheels and trunks. Don't ask.

The Scream
There are days when it is just unavoidable. It does not matter what causes it - it could be the evil green mist, a nagging sibling, a hot day, an unwanted lunch, an extra long line at the grocery store. It only matters that the inevitable occurs on a daily basis.

As mothers, we feel it is our duty to our children to prevent this catastrophic event from ever inflicting their little lives. But we fail. Miserably. For no matter how much we bribe with candy or treats or coloring books or promises of a trip to the park or to the mall or anywhere but where you currently are - we fail. Miserably. The scream ALWAYS still comes.

Anyone who has spent just two hours with a child can relate. When you need to run errands, or you are getting ready for an extended trip in the family vehicle ... you begin preparing. You think of every possible, minute problem that could conceivably cause even one tiny wrinkle in those little faces and you plan accordingly. You feed them, change their diapers, give them their favorite toys, bring juice boxes and snacks, books to read, puzzles to do, crayons to draw, hell ... you have the entire Toys 'r Us store in the back of the effing car! You are SUPERMOM! You've thought of everything and covered all the bases.

The first 30 minutes go fine. They are wiggling in their seats, getting comfortable, while looking out the windows at the passing scenery. That grows old. On to the toys. That lasts about 20 seconds. Rip out the books and color. Another 20 sec. We offer a snack or some juice, the little people in the back seat are appeased and you smile to yourself once again.

What an UTTERLY false sense of security you have there, supermom.

The temperature is a balmy 79 degrees outside. A beautiful day for a drive. Dad says he needs to make a "quick stop" so you and the children decide to wait in the car. 5 minutes turns into 10 minutes. Quiet complaints are beginning to emanate from the back of the vehicle. The temperature inside the vehicle has escalated. Toys are thrown across the seat at the other child and promptly whipped back in return, narrowly missing heads and nearly shattering windows.

10 minutes turns into 15 minutes.

You are beginning to feel the panic rise in your throat. Your mouth becomes dry. The noise from the back seat is steadily increasing. You attempt peace offerings. Toys, snacks, drinks, a million dollars, anything that will keep them quiet. Any items offered in peace by YOU become a potential weapon to maim, hurt or kill the OTHER with.

You have reached the point of no return.

You know it's coming. You are helpless to stop it. You turn around in your seat and look out the front window, holding your breath. Knowing it is only a matter of time until you hear...

THE SCREAM.

This is no ordinary scream. It comes from the very bottom of their souls, is loud enough to wake the dead and bust the ear drums of the living. You cringe as people passing by look at you as if you are an axe murderer. You turn around and whisper - loudly - ENOUGH ALREADY! Do NOT make me have your father turn this car around and take you both home!"

20 minutes have now gone by on Dad's "just a minute" trip.

With tears streaming and blood-curdling screams coming from the back seat from both of the demon spawn now, you have almost reached the limit where you will join them in screaming bloody murder at the top of your lungs.

The demon spawn then spot Dad coming back to the car. The tears magically disappear, the screaming stops, and the angelic faces return once again as if nothing was wrong.

Dad gets back in the car and says, "Everything alright while I was gone?"

The demon spawn reply, "Mommy yelled at us Daddy!"

Dad slowly turns to look at you and asks, "What did you yell at them for? They look like they were behaving themselves..."

You stare out the front window and contemplate what jail would be like for the remainder of your life. You certainly wouldn't get away with murdering the man thing, but you would certainly never have to deal with the scream ever again either.

It's a thought.

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HAVE YOU EVER...

...had one of those days where you just wanted to throw your hands in the air and yell, "What the f***!" about 10 minutes after you woke up?

Yeah. It's looking like one of those days here.

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